Culture is embodied in all the details of life, but it is usually ignored or abstract.


    When Grandpa said this, long Jianhua couldn''t help paying attention to this problem, and quickly made a decision: diamond rings should be used as birthday gifts, and gifts with traditional cultural significance must be selected for engagement and marriage.


    Gift giving is to give your own mind, which should be your favorite; Of course, it''s best to make the other party like it best.


    He quickly flipped through his memory, aftertaste bit by bit after meeting Liu Zhifei, and abstracted her preferences


    My mother came out of the teahouse and said with a smile, "we are really stupid. Listening to sister Huiyan''s tone, people have been waiting for us to propose an engagement."


    Grandma came in from the yard. "It''s really stupid. Feifei can get engaged after graduating from university. We didn''t expect to ask others. But it''s not too late. Doesn''t she have a twenty day holiday at Christmas? We all go to Kyoto... Xiulin, what are they going to do? "


    Mom said with a smile, "it''s very simple. Just have a meal together. It''s inconvenient for their old man to come out. We''ll eat at their house. "


    Pat long Jianhua on the head, "my son, sister Huiyan said that she was engaged on New Year''s day. You and Feifei finished the three tables that day alone. However, Feifei will be my daughter-in-law soon. I can''t let her work so hard. I''ll take her to chat. So, you have to be ready. All the work is done by yourself. "


    Long Jianhua shouted, "Mom, are you still my mother after torturing my son so much?"


    My mother slapped him and laughed, "I''m sure it''s your real and closest mother. I like Feifei so much that I have to sacrifice your position. "


    Long Jianhua was speechless


    In Kyoto, the future mother-in-law and the old lady are talking about their engagement.


    The future mother-in-law said with a smile, "I''m relieved after they''re engaged."


    The old lady smiled and said, "I''ve always been at ease with Jianhua. Ah, he will be the most handsome man in our family in the future, or a handsome man who can manage well both inside and outside. "


    The future mother-in-law smiled, "Mom, you have learned new words from Hong Kong and Taiwan."


    The old lady said with a smile, "Hong Kong and Taiwan are talking about handsome men. Mine is handsome men. It''s different."


    Then he patted the handrail, "you have to talk to them. Don''t give gifts. That guy, as soon as he gives it away, it may be earth shaking and have a bad impact. With your mother and daughter, our Liu family is not short of money. Even the little money fan Fangfei is here, our Liu family has a lot of wealth. "


    The future mother-in-law shook her head, "it''s hard to say. It''s impossible not to give gifts. After all, it''s an engagement. Ask him to give less gifts, as if we want them to. See what they mean. More, then less. "


    The old lady laughed, "that guy helped Feifei buy a villa in the United States and hired three bodyguards. How much less? I hope the gift is not too vulgar. "


    The old man came in from the outside. The future mother-in-law quickly stood up and helped the old man take off his coat and hang it on the hanger.


    The old man asked, "I heard you two laughing outside. What''s the good news?"


    The old lady smiled and said, "Jianhua''s mother called and wanted them to get engaged. We are talking about how they will give gifts."


    The old man frowned. "He gives you $5 billion a year for flowers and cares about other people''s gifts?"


    The old lady said with a smile, "is this a gift you don''t want to give? This is etiquette. We were wondering whether the gifts they gave were vulgar or elegant. "


    The future mother-in-law listens with a smile, but she is laughing at her in her heart. She didn''t give it just now, but now she talks about the old man.


    The old man thought so and said with a smile, "this is going to test long Jianhua''s appreciation level. However, he can make so many products, I think it should be elegant. "


    "You don''t know. That guy is going to invest nearly $4 billion in a large petrochemical project in the mainland this time, but it''s hard for the guy in Zhangjiakou."


    The future mother-in-law listened with a smile, but the old lady was surprised and asked, "how did it make him uncomfortable?"


    The old man said with a smile, "long Jianhua proposed to own the port and participate in CNOOC, otherwise the share proportion would be much lower. Think about it. In this situation, who dares to let others meddle in state-owned assets? "


    The old lady skimmed her mouth and said, "touch your fingers? It''s not like not giving money. So many joint ventures, he is still one? I think Jianhua is a man who can make money and always thinks of the country. He should be given more opportunities to make money. "


    The future mother-in-law laughed and said, "Mom, you don''t distinguish between public and private. There is a saying in Huxiang, "when my mother-in-law sees Lang, her ass doesn''t touch the bed." you are more excited about Jianhua than I am. "


    The old lady said with a smile, "that guy is really excellent. I don''t know how feifeinanizi fell in love with him at a glance, and two at the same time. "


    The future mother-in-law has been smiling, "so they are legends. Jianhua has specially produced a tape for him. Feifei told me that Jianhua gave her the income from that tape. After Jianhua''s operation, it has now exceeded $5 billion. "


    The old man almost jumped up, "so many?"


    The old lady looked at him with her eyes crossed, "why, do you want to learn from Lao Zhang''s head?"


    The old man hurriedly said, "nothing."


    Then he purred, "how can that guy make so much money. You can''t rob money. You have to rob a check so fast. No wonder he bought and built factories everywhere and made the research institute bigger and bigger. If this goes on, the country will not catch up with him. "


    The old lady hummed, "that only means you have no ability. So many people can''t compare with him."


    The old man said slowly, "he is an enterprise, we are a country, and there is no comparability."


    The old lady turned to him, "he took 10000 yuan to Guangdong. He wanted to find something to do in the special zone, but later he developed in xiangdao. Don''t you think about it? Why does he have to go to xiangdao to make it? "


    "When he makes a product, either the technology is the most advanced or the market share ranks among the top three in the world; With so many enterprises, which foundation is not better than him, and which one can match him now? "


    "In the past four years, Huiyan has taken $16.6 billion from him. It''s not worth half to sell those enterprises one by one."


    The old man has big eyes and doesn''t speak.


    In the future, my mother-in-law has been smiling and watching them argue. It''s not easy to interrupt.


    After a moment of silence, the old man said, "aren''t you talking about gifts? How did you talk about his money?"


    The future mother-in-law quickly said, "yes, my mother and I are guessing whether his gift will be vulgar or elegant. I was thinking that if the gift was tacky, I wouldn''t say anything that day, and I would laugh at him later. "


    She said with a smile in her heart: it seems to have been said at the beginning. In order to alleviate the atmosphere, she can only do it again.


    What has the final say, "what is vulgar and elegant?" Besides, she has seen everything now and has so many beautiful knives. What gift can make her very moved? Maybe a piece of jade will solve it. I think you are worrying blindly. "


    The old lady and her future mother-in-law looked at each other and laughed.