On the afternoon of February 9, long Jianhua returned to yard 7 from the company and saw two little guys playing on the slide in the yard, with pony, Xiao Feng and Xiao Liu nursing by the sand pool.
Seeing his car coming in, Zhengyu quickly slid down the slide and climbed up from the sand pool. He ran towards the car with two short legs and shouted "Dad is back."
Qinglan is climbing the stairs. When she sees the car suddenly stand up and lean back, the pony quickly reaches out and grabs her.
He turned and walked down, shouting, "Dad" and "Dad".
There are two little guys who are busy. One calls and the other can''t suffer.
Zhengyu, who was running forward, heard Qinglan''s cry, immediately stopped, turned and ran to Qinglan, shouting, "sister, let''s pick up Dad together."
Long Jianhua got out of the car and saw Zhengyu holding Qinglan''s hand running towards him. He also walked quickly towards them.
He saw this scene just now and was very pleased. Zhengyu now has the style of his childhood.
Go to them, squat down, wipe the sand on their faces and heads, "are you happy?"
I didn''t know how to communicate with children before. Later, I learned that the best way for adults and children to communicate is equality; This equality is not only the tone, attitude, but also the body language. Being equal to them is the best body language.
Qinglan rushed into his arms, "happy."
Zheng Yu said loudly, "I slide down, climb back from the slide, slide down and climb up again. My sister still climbs up. She''s so slow."
Long Jianhua wiped the sweat and sand off his face, smiled and said, "your legs are long and your sister''s legs are short, so you are fast and she is slow."
After kissing the two little guys, he asked, "do you continue to play or go home with me?"
They said at the same time, "keep playing" and "go home".
Long Jianhua touched Zhengyu''s head, "then you continue to play. My sister and I go home first."
Zhengyu waved to him, "bye."
Turn around and run to the sand pool.
Long Jianhua stood up with Qinglan in his arms and looked at the little guy running up the stairs. He suddenly felt something in his heart.
If you focus on one thing, you don''t have so much time to think about other things, and many things you should do are ignored.
Let''s say this slide. If Zheng Yu didn''t like playing outside when he returned to Hunan last year, he didn''t think about this at all - he would put a set of slides in the yard for them; Liu Zhifei didn''t read or write a paper, let alone think about it.
After the installation in October, they had been in Huxiang. After Liu Zhifei''s investigation, it was the end of the year when he came to xiangdao. It rained for a long time, so they only played a few times.
It hasn''t rained these days. They have fun and play on it for three or four hours every day.
As a result, Zhengyu doesn''t seem so quiet and active.
I washed Qinglan''s face and hands, felt her underwear wet, and changed her into dry clothes.
Came to the study door, gently pushed the door open, saw Liu Zhifei standing up, Qinglan said with milk, "Mom, dad is back."
Liu Zhifei turned around and said with a smile, "Dad is back. What did aunts take you to play?"
The little guy replied in a crisp voice, "slide, my brother is still playing."
Then he turned and looked at long Jianhua, "Dad, I want to play."
Long Jianhua threw her up, "what are you playing with?"
The little guy giggled, "slide."
Liu Zhifei came and hugged her, "well, mom sent you there."
He turned to long Jianhua and said, "I haven''t been out all afternoon. It seems that this article can''t be completed in xiangdao. We can only continue in Kyoto. "
Long Jianhua said with a smile, "it''s good for you. A survey has stimulated all your accumulation and turned you into a paper writing machine. I just want to ask you, "is this analogy?"
She chuckled. "It''s very similar to your management. 6S management is one of the foundations of quality management system. Six Sigma management also needs 6S management, especially Lean Six Sigma. Only with good accumulation can there be more explosive points. "
Go to the door, put down Qinglan and let her run to the sand pool. She took long Jianhua''s hand and said, "brother Hua, we don''t have a chance to press the road and the yard."
He naturally agreed, "indeed, it seems that we haven''t crossed the road or the yard several times. I''m going back to Beijing tomorrow. There are fewer opportunities. "
The 12th is the official opening day, and she will have class on the 15th; Tomorrow is the Lantern Festival. Tomorrow, a family of four will go back to Kyoto and spend the festival at her house.
This time to Kyoto, the two little guys went with Liu Zhifei, and the three ponies went with them. Long Jianhua goes to see them every weekend. He doesn''t want them to be completely reserved children.
However, in April, Liu Zhifei still had one month''s class in xiangdao and half a month in June. She was not entirely left behind children.
Seeing Qinglan climb the stairs, Liu Zhifei said with a smile, "Lanlan has more courage than Zhengzheng and climbs up regardless of everything. When you want to climb for the first time, you are careful and careful. "
He said with a smile, "Lan Lan, this is the fearlessness of the ignorant. Zheng Zheng is a little older. He knows that he is afraid, so he has to test before he dares to act. "
She turned and looked at the crazy clank and the shouting Qinglan, "why didn''t I expect to get a slide at home? When you go to Shichahai, you can invite the children around you to play at home. It''s a lot more lively. They won''t just play by themselves. "
Then he turned to look at him, "I want to build a swimming pool there, a simple one, so that they can play with water in summer; You can''t just slide. Change the pattern. "
He nodded, "yes, I''ll buy the materials. It''s just that the yard is not big. It''s already got a slide and a swimming pool. It''s very crowded. "
She pursed. "It''s crowded. Did you find that Zheng Zheng didn''t like moving so much after playing here for a few days. I thought he was quiet, but I didn''t think his nature didn''t burst out. Brother Hua, is this my failure? "
He smiled, "it''s all right now. He doesn''t remember anything. We are all parents for the first time. In addition, we are too busy with work. We haven''t observed many details and tested many characters. But in this age, everyone lives like this, and it''s much better than when we were young. When we were young, we just had to eat and wear warm clothes. How can we have any toys? "
She expressed different opinions. "We had many peers at that time, and they didn''t. That''s the biggest difference. People are to communicate, so as to cultivate a sound character; If you don''t communicate with your peers, your character will be flawed. "
Long Jianhua did not study this, but thought her words had a certain truth; But it''s hard to tell.