Because of the particularity of the family, there is a saying that "it is difficult for honest officials to stop housework".


    After listening to what he said just now, Liu Zhifei sighed softly, "that''s why friends are easier to get along with than family. At our level, we pursue simplicity in everything we do. Good friends can contact often, ordinary friends can contact less, and those who don''t want to contact can not contact or play games. "


    "Relatives are different. They are related by blood. OK, do you want to get along or not? Similar blood is left in the blood vessels. This can''t be erased. But you''re right. Let your mother solve such a problem. "


    "If she is willing to make up with them, we should accept it. After all, it''s the business of the older generation."


    Long Jianhua shook his head. "My mother is willing to make up with them. I''ll welcome her. But it''s impossible for me to make up with them and treat them sincerely. Blood relatives are better than bones. "


    Zhengyu immediately asked, "Dad, what is bone kiss?"


    He said with a smile, "bone kiss, take me for example, is your whine and you two."


    Qinglan blinked, "doesn''t mom count? Neither is my aunt? "


    He turned his head and looked at him, "Mom and you are close to each other, not me. My aunt and I are blood relatives, the closest kind. "


    Qinglan seconds understand, "Oh, my mother and grandparents are bone relatives. So we come back every month to see them. "


    Long Jianhua wanted to test the two of them and asked, "what should you do if you encounter this situation?"


    Qinglan immediately responded, "we don''t have those problems, so there''s no need to think about these things."


    Zheng Yu then said, "don''t spend too much brains on things that can be solved with money. However, I think if you give too much money, which is more than ten times higher than their salary, you will cultivate parasites. "


    "Especially dad, you haven''t formulated a set of systematic reward and punishment measures at all. It''s too general and bad. There is another defect, that is, it is our generation. However, they did not manage the children of the two aunts. It''s not fair. "


    Liu Zhifei glanced at him and said with a smile, "that''s what you decided. Your father just pays."


    Qinglan giggled, "it''s called killing the rich and helping the poor. The two aunts have money, so they don''t give it; They have no money, so give it to me. Do I also have a concept of "married women, splashed water"


    Liu Zhifei slapped her, "you can talk nonsense. Your aunt had shares in the research institute very early. Your aunt Yuehua later joined and distributed shares to her; As for Yuehe, we paid for her company. We also paid for all the expenses for the three of them to study outside. "


    She then asked with a smile, "what do you think if we give them some shares of the group?"


    Both nodded in agreement.


    She immediately added, "the group shares are very valuable. If they leave, we will be less. "


    Zheng Yu purred, "that''s your money. The distribution right is in your hands."


    This little guy knows a lot.


    Of course, this is only tentative. At present, there is no plan to distribute shares to their group.


    Instead of directly returning to the Shichahai quadrangle, the small family came to the hotel and met with several shareholders of the hotel group to discuss the development of the hotel group and jade group last year, as well as the dividend last year


    After long Jianhua left, her aunt took her mother into the bedroom, told her what she had said to long Jianhua again, and then looked forward to her reaction.


    After crying for a while, my mother said, "sister, I don''t blame everyone for drawing a line with me at that time, but I can''t stand treating my mother like that. How can there be such a white eyed wolf in our family? If it wasn''t Jianhua, would there still be my mother? "


    Now, aunt is a little embarrassed. She is also responsible for that situation.


    She paused for a moment before saying, "little sister, it was forced by the situation at that time."


    My mother waved her hand. "There are people like us in our street. No one has received such letters. To put it bluntly, it is because there is no family affection that we can do such a thing. "


    "Fortunately, the dragon family has a good family style. My mother-in-law and father-in-law don''t treat me differently because of such things; In fact, my mother-in-law said it to Jianhua privately. I don''t know. "


    "Such a family style, like ours, is completely a heaven and an earth. Although my mother-in-law is very guanjianhua, she is also very good to Junyan and better to my daughter-in-law. "


    Aunt smiled and said, "therefore, Jianhua and Junyan are very promising, and Haoyuan is also very promising."


    My mother shook her head, "the dragon family attaches great importance to family affection. At that time, the traffic was inconvenient. The two brothers had to write at least one letter every month. Haojun used to be so far away that he had to go home for the new year every two years. A family of four crowded the train for three or four days; Later, my sister-in-law was injured and couldn''t go back to Hunan for the new year, but they had to write back to report the good news instead of the bad. "


    "I used to write ten letters. It would be nice to receive one reply; Later, my letters were returned and I received a letter to draw the line. "


    She was a little excited about what happened at that time.


    Aunt sighed, "little sister, let the past pass."


    My mother shook her head. "Elder sister, you haven''t experienced that kind of thing and can''t feel that pain. Forget it, it''s all over... If the second sister wants to come, let''s have dinner here tonight. You can go to the hotel. "


    The aunt asked tentatively, "why don''t we go to her house in the evening? You two haven''t seen each other for more than 20 years. "


    My mother shook her head, "I won''t go. I''m here to pay New Year''s greetings to my mother. I have no plan to pay New Year''s greetings to others. "


    This person refers to these brothers and sisters. I have visited them in Beijing for so many years and haven''t seen them. With that letter, even if there is family affection, it is very light.


    She stopped for a moment and then said, "usually they may not know I''m coming, but I come to pay New Year''s greetings to my mother every year, whether it''s the second or third day of junior high school. They don''t know? Huxiang''s house doesn''t know, Shichahai''s house doesn''t know? So I thought, "I''ll pay New Year''s greetings to them and send them respect?"


    "I agree with Jianhua''s remark that ''some relatives are not as good as ordinary people''. With such a little blood relationship, it seems that we must maintain it together. How is that necessary? Everyone can live according to their own ideas. Why can''t I? "


    Aunt sighed and didn''t speak again.


    She remembered what Zhao Taihang said. The people in this family really don''t have much family affection. She was reluctant to admit it; Today, I heard this from my little sister. I can''t admit it.


    Therefore, it will not be mentioned again.