"Brother Ting''s girlfriend is 30 years old, and she didn''t catch up with family planning," Gu Junzhu said. "Her brother is two years younger than him. The year her brother was born, the country began to implement the family planning policy."
Ye Xingbei said: "in fact, family planning is useless in some places. Many old people think it''s a blessing to have many children. In the small town where I lived when I was a child, even though my family was poor, I was still living with four or five people."
"Yes," Mr. Gu sighed, "old people used to think that having more children and more grandchildren is a blessing In fact, I think so now Once you get old, you want to have a lively family. If any of you like children, you will have more children in the future. We can raise as many as you like. But if you don''t like it, it''s OK to have one. I don''t insist. You have your own thoughts and your own life. You just want to be happy. No matter what decision you make, I support it. "
Thinking of his mother, his uncle and aunt who died young, Yun Jue wanted to slap himself in the face.
What''s he talking about?
Gu Junzhu also found the old man''s sadness and changed the topic: "brother Ting''s girlfriend''s family condition is very poor, and there is no money at home. Brother Ting''s girlfriend''s eldest brother can''t marry a wife. Brother Ting''s girlfriend''s parents married their eldest daughter to a divorced old man and asked for 200000 dowry before they built a house for their eldest son and married his wife."
"It''s very common in poor places to marry a son with the bride price of a girl," said Ye Xingbei. "The poorer the place, the more common it is."
In a family without money, if the son can''t marry his daughter-in-law, he can only marry his daughter. He asks the other party for the bride price, and after receiving the bride price, he marries his son''s daughter-in-law.
Many people who have no money do this.
"But the local market price of Ting brother''s girlfriend was 88000, and their family asked for 200000," Gu Junzhu said. "The elder sister of Ting brother''s girlfriend originally talked about a boyfriend, and they had a good relationship. In order to marry her elder sister, her elder sister''s boyfriend persuaded his parents to take out all their savings, borrowed tens of thousands more, and got 120000 yuan, but Ting was very happy My girlfriend''s parents still don''t agree. "
"Brother Ting''s girlfriend''s sister has a good relationship with her boyfriend. My staff heard that brother Ting''s girlfriend''s sister knelt at her parents'' feet and begged them to accept tens of thousands less betrothal gifts, but brother Ting''s girlfriend''s parents still didn''t agree with their marriage."
"The elder sister of brother Ting''s girlfriend says that her boyfriend is the only one who won''t marry. Brother Ting''s girlfriend''s mother cuts her wrists and commits suicide. She forces brother Ting''s girlfriend''s elder sister to agree to marry the old man who gave 200000 yuan Brother Ting''s girlfriend was only 23 years old when she got married, and the old man was 45 years old. "
Yun Jue frowned: "is that too cruel? Are they my parents? "
"It''s really too much," Ye Xingbei said. "In our small town, although many parents will take their daughter''s bride price to marry their son, they will try their best to find a good family for their daughter. They don''t marry their 20-year-old daughter to a 40 year-old man for money. Isn''t that selling their daughter?"
"Yes," said Gu Junzhu, looking at Gu and smiling, "Dad, brother Ting''s girlfriend''s second brother is 32 years old, and his younger brother is 28 years old. He hasn''t married yet You have to be mentally prepared! "
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