"You shouldn''t have done relevant psychological counseling? In other words, it has never been regarded as a mental disease. However, a person with emotional trauma is not suitable to be a psychologist. Because almost everyone can''t get out of the emotional trauma by themselves. " Huo Bufan said.
"Have you finished?" Pansy looked at him coldly and said, "do you know psychology well? It''s so powerful. Why did your wife bring you to me? "
"Because she doesn''t understand me." Huo Bufan said, "at least, I can see that you are not very professional. How can you cure me if you haven''t even cured your own disease. Besides, I''m really not ill, and I don''t need the so-called psychotherapy. "
"Sick people always say they are not sick, just like drunken people who never admit that they are drunk." Pan Simi suddenly thought of something. The anger on her face gradually disappeared and replaced by a smiling expression: "I see. You feel too embarrassed, so you want to provoke me in this way and let me give up your treatment? I have to say, your means are very useful. I really want you to be a useless man forever! But I won''t do that. Because I''m a psychologist, I won''t give up my professional ethics because of your little trick. "
Huo Bufan shook his head and said, "if you think too much and provoke you, it''s not much better than cheating you. I just want to tell you that you may not know Ji Xiangning very well. She disdains to argue with others, so she won''t argue. There should be a misunderstanding about what happened that year. Maybe you should meet and sit down and have a good chat sometime. Don''t look at me like this. The reason why I tell you this is because my wife seems to care about it. Although she didn''t say it, I know she cares about whether your relationship can be repaired. I swore that as long as I was alive, I wouldn''t let them worry about anything. "
Looking at Huo Bufan with a serious face, pansmi was full of surprise.
She could see that the man was not lying.
However, how can there be people in the world who think of this for their wife?
Just because of the possible worry in her heart, eliminate any hidden dangers for her in advance.
However, considering Ning Xueqing''s concern for Huo Bufan, pansimi has some recognition. Maybe the relationship between the couple is better than I thought.
"Aren''t you afraid that I''m really angry and leave you alone? In that case, isn''t your wife more worried? " Asked pansy.
Huo Bufan smiled and said, "are you so angry that you want to leave me alone now?"
Pan Simi was stunned. Yes, she was not so angry that she coaxed the man out of the car and called Ning Xueqing to get angry.
Why?
The gratitude and resentment buried in her heart for many years should have made her mad. No matter anyone mentions it, it makes her want to bite.
But why was the man not so angry when he said it?
"Time is the best weapon, which can eliminate all negative existence. Moreover, after studying psychology for so many years, you should also vaguely understand that Ji Xiangning''s character is absolutely disdainful to compete with others, even if she may have liked it. It''s just that the longer things are buried, the more they won''t come down. " Huo Bufan said.
This time, pansy didn''t refute, because what Huo Bufan said was also what she thought.
Over the years of psychological research, she did have this idea.
Ji Xiangning''s family background is the best of all, and her character is also the most proud. When she was in college, her tutor''s daughter won the first prize in the painting competition by relationship, and she didn''t argue about anything.
There is, there is no, good or bad, just know it in your heart.
If you fight with people you despise, you will only become people you hate.
Including the occasional mention of what happened that year, no one said that Ji Xiangning was with the younger student.
All the anger only comes from seeing them holding together. I can''t remember whether any details have been ignored.
As Huo Bufan said, if people talk too much and time goes by, it will be difficult to step down. We can only make mistakes.
What Huo Bufan has done is a catalyst to completely explode the contradictions that should exist and expose the most essential internal problems.
When the problem is exposed, some things are easy to make clear.
"If you continue to be stunned, you may miss the game time in kindergarten." Huo Bufan reminded.
Pansimi recovered and looked at Huo Bufan with a smile. She suddenly asked strangely, "I''m a little suspicious now. Are you a psychologist or me. You look very professional in this way. Have you really learned it before? "
"What do you think?" Huo Bufan asked.
Pansy looked thoughtful, then smiled and asked, "do you guess me?"
Huo Bufan laughed loudly and didn''t tangle more on this topic.
Sometimes you don''t have to answer a question, because whoever answers will lose.
Pansimi is obviously an unyielding character, but she is more flexible than Ji Xiangning.
If it was Ji Xiangning, maybe it would come up with two big mouths. You can answer your questions. There''s so much nonsense.
After that, Huo Bufan didn''t embarrass pansimi any more. Similarly, pansimi didn''t criticize him any more.
As the flow chart says, first go to the kindergarten to play games with the children, and then go to the nursing home to sweep the floor.
After lunch, pansimi took Huo Bufan to the riverside square.
There are many pigeons here. They walk around the square and are not afraid of people. Instead, they are very close to people.
It is said that a long time ago, there was a forest here. Later, the city expanded, the forest was cut down and built into a square.
Those birds who have nowhere to live either go elsewhere or stay and become friends with people.
Few people can remember whether there are so many birds left, but there are a lot of pigeons in the square.
There are also vendors selling all kinds of bread crumbs, constantly selling them to people.
The children bought the most and looked happy.
Pansimi bought two bags and handed Huo Bufan one. Then he opened the other bag, picked up a handful and squatted down in the palm of his hand.
Several pigeons cooed, jumped to her hand, bowed their heads and ate happily.
Huo Bufan did something like that. While feeding, he asked, "do you often come here?"
"Of course, my parents liked to bring me when I was a child. Later, they were busy with their work and had less time with me. When I''m free, I''ll come here by myself. Feeding pigeons looks insignificant, but it''s actually easy to relax. These little guys don''t have any bad intentions towards humans, and they don''t think humans have bad intentions towards them. Sometimes they think it''s much easier to get along with pigeons than to make friends with humans. "
"I think pigeons are more complex than humans." Huo Bufan said.
"Why?" Pansy turned to look at him.
Huo Bufan looked down at the crumbs in his hand and said, "if you feed the pigeon once, it''s hard for it to remember who you are. But if you give someone money, he will remember you for a long time. The next time he comes, he will take the initiative to find you and try to get more benefits. Therefore, it is easy to make fair weather friends, but it is not so easy to feed pigeons into friends. "
"You sound a little dark. Why, you''ve also suffered psychological trauma? Is it convenient for you to tell me? " Asked pansy.
"Not very convenient." Huo Bufan shook his head.
"If you don''t treat me as a psychologist, you can''t just be an ordinary friend?" Asked pansy.
"No." Huo Bufan still refused decisively.
"Stingy." Pansy skimmed.
After feeding the pigeons, patting the remaining bread crumbs on his hands, pansy took out his mobile phone and said, "here you are. Take some photos?"
Huo Bufan has no interest in self photographing. Like most men, he prefers to take pictures of beautiful women.
Seeing his lack of interest, pansy simply handed him his cell phone and said, "take some nice pictures for me."
Then she ran to the railing beside the square and leaned slightly.
The setting sun reflects the brilliant sunset by the river. In the camera, a woman in formal dress stands.
A few strands of hair fell to her ears, which made her more playful in her serious temperament.
It looks beautiful and attracts many passers-by.
Huo Bufan took a few pictures from a good angle, and then shouted, "take it."
However, pansimi waved to him. After Huo Bufan passed, she asked, "is it good?"
"It should look good." Huo Bufan replied.
Pansimi lifted the hair between her forehead and showed a slightly charming expression on her face. She didn''t know whether it was her blushing cheeks or the reflection of the sunset glow. She bit her lips and asked, "is it me or your wife?"